Friday, May 23, 2014
Why My Profile Photo Looks Like Carlotta Vance
I chose Marie Dressler as my profile photo (see right column of this blog) in homage to her character, Carlotta Vance, from the classic 1933 film, "Dinner at Eight."
Carlotta is a woman who once had fame and fortune, who knew what it was like to live in luxury. But in the movie, she is no longer young and beautiful, no longer pursued by men who want to woo her with furs and diamonds. In fact, as her career wanes, she finally reaches the point where, as she tells her dear friend Oliver Jordan, "I haven't got a sou!" Yet she faces life with courage, concern for others, and as you see in the clip above, a sense of humor.
The character of Carlotta is a role model for me. Over the last decade or so, the lousy economy has dealt my family some hard blows. We lost a business and had to sell our family home. Our income is nowhere near what it once was.
It's often tempting to feel sorry for myself, and sometimes I do. But most of the time, I want to be like Carlotta. I want to face the future with a sense of hope and charity.
In that spirit, I wrote Downsizing Your Life for Freedom, Flexibility & Financial Peace. It's had a good response, and I'm grateful. Now I'm writing another book related to it that I hope will also help and encourage others.
Times are challenging for many people these days. I want to help my readers by sharing what my family has learned, and by telling everyone that being proactive about change, especially change you didn't ask for, is the best way to get through hard times and keep enjoying your life.